The power of relationships in fostering with Marie, Mal and Madison

As Foster Care Fortnight (12-25 May) celebrates the power of relationships, Foster Wales Carmarthenshire is proud to share the heart-warming story of local foster carers Marie and Mal, and their close bond with 15-year-old Madison.

Marie and Mal, who are approaching their eighth year as foster carers, have created a stable, loving home for Madison and her brother since the siblings came into their care six years ago. Madison was just nine years old when she was placed with the couple, and the connection they’ve built over the years is a testament to the transformative impact of fostering.

The couple, who have two children of their own, currently care for five foster children. Marie and Mal emphasise the importance of treating every child with the same care and consistency.

It is no different than bringing up your own children.”

For Madison, the connection with her foster family has meant everything.

My relationship with Marie and Mal means everything to me. Marie, Mal and the whole family are my family. I have all the love and support in the world from them all.”

The couple’s fostering journey has been strengthened by a supportive network.

 

Our family enjoys being involved, helping whenever they’re needed, and being part of the children’s lives.
Each child’s needs are different. We never stop learning! We have excellent support with our supervising social workers, children’s social workers, and emotional team.
We do go through bumps along the way, but with all the support from professionals it makes it easier."

 

Marie is also a mentor for other foster carers, using her experience to support those new to fostering. Her role highlights the power of relationships not only with foster children, but within the fostering community too.

Foster carers you become friends with and support each other.”

Cllr. Jane Tremlett, Cabinet Member for Adult Social Services and Children and Families, said:

Marie and Mal’s story shows just how important strong, stable relationships are for children and young people in foster care. Their dedication has made a real difference in Madison’s life, and it’s a powerful reminder of the lasting impact foster carers can have.”

Marie and Mal’s Supervising Social Worker, Rebecca, added:

I have only been supporting Marie and Mal for the last few months and it has been such a great experience. Marie and Mal provide a warm, supportive, and nurturing environment for the children in their care. Their consistent communication, patience, and understanding have made a significant positive impact."

To find out how you can make a difference by fostering in Carmarthenshire, visit Foster Wales Carmarthenshire. Or to make an enquiry, contact us now.